'Always have a bottle of Champagne in the fridge and always order pavlova': How cancer blogger, 22, who was given just three months to live after finding a mole on her back kept a bucket list of simple things she loved before her tragic death
- Emma Betts died earlier this month as she lost her battle to melanoma aged 25
- At 22, she was given three months to live - but survived the illness for three years
- ABC show Australian Story has recapped her life in an emotional documentary
- Ms Betts wrote a list of things she loved to help her keep positive before she died
A woman who was diagnosed with skin cancer and given three months to live aged 22 wrote a list of little things she loved to keep her positive before she died.
Emma Betts, from Brisbane, was diagnosed with Stage 4 Metastatic Melanoma after her scuba diving instructor spotted a mole on her back.
Knowing she was going to die as treatment failed, she married her boyfriend Serge Simic, started a sun safety blog called Dear Melanoma and began raising money to save others' lives because she couldn't save her own.
The aid worker felt writing a bucket list would bring too much pressure to complete it so instead kept a list of simple things she enjoyed in life.
The little things: Emma Betts (pictured) tragically died after she lost her battle to melanoma at the age of 25. The aid worker felt writing a bucket list would bring too much pressure to complete it so instead kept a list of day-to-day things she enjoyed in life
Loving husband: The 25-year-old died peacefully on 8 April, with her husband Serge (pictured together with their puppy Mr Ralph) by her side
Taken too soon: Emma Betts (pictured), from Brisbane, was diagnosed with Stage 4 Metastatic Melanoma after her scuba diving instructor spotted a mole on her back
Support: Many of the couple's first dates were in hospital as Mr Simic stayed by his girlfriend's side despite her diagnosis. They met because Mr Simic worked for Ms Betts' brother-in-law. Five months later, after her diagnosis, he asked her to marry him
It read: 'Always have a bottle of champagne in the fridge. Always order pavlova if it's on the menu.'
With her customary sense of humour, Ms Betts added on the pavlova: 'Thank goodness it isn't often on the menu or I would be living at the gym!'
The list also included: 'Enjoy Sushi Train often, enjoy regular massages and eat Caramello Koalas when the urge strikes.'
On April 8 this year, after surviving three years since her diagnosis, Ms Betts died peacefully at home with her parents Leon and Tamra and husband by her side.
ABC show Australian Story recapped her life in an emotional documentary which aired Monday night.
Her boyfriend Mr Simic revealed why he decided to stay with her and get married despite her telling him to leave.
'It wasn't out of pity,' he said. 'I thought "I genuinely want to be with this person," I was in it for the long run.'
Mr Simic, who met Ms Betts after working for her brother-in-law, proposed after just five months of dating because he felt that was 'the road we would go down' if she didn't have cancer.
He said through tears that even though he wanted to spend the rest of his life with his wife, he was pleased that her suffering had ended.
Also in the show, Ms Betts' parents paid tribute to their third daughter and said the week after her death was very 'tough time'.
On 8 April this year, after surviving for three years since her diagnosis, Ms Betts (pictured) died peacefully at home with her parents Leon and Tamra and husband by her side
Happy couple: The pair were married on March 16, 2014 at Boomerang Farm on the Gold Coast
Hospitalised: Ms Betts is pictured left with her puppy Mr Ralph and right before eating Pavlova during her treatment
Ms Betts was volunteering in East Timor three years ago when a scuba diving instructor pointed out an unusual mole on her shoulder.
She went for a skin check and was diagnosed with cancer. After her diagnosis, Emma decided to start her blog to document her daily struggles and start 'a conversation about cancer'.
Covering everything from the plans she had for her death, her support for the 'dignity to die' cause and her fear of leaving her husband behind, her blog offered a raw and honest account of living with the disease.
'While it's tough writing the posts and I get quite upset, seeing the comments and reading how it has impacted people makes me feel like I'm actually doing something for myself, as well as other people,' Ms Betts said at the time.
During her three-year battle, Ms Betts achieved more than she ever thought possible - from marrying her husband Serge and buying a house to starting her own business and raising over $100,000 for the Melanoma Institute.
In a heartbreaking post after her death, Emma's father broke the tragic news to her 20,850 followers.
'All good things must come to an end,' he wrote.
'At around 11:40 last night Emma peacefully passed away with Serge, Tamra and I at her side.
During her three-year battle, Ms Betts achieved more than she ever thought possible - from marrying her husband Serge and buying a house to starting her own business and raising over $100,000 for the Melanoma Institute
ABC show Australian Story recapped her life in an emotional documentary which aired Monday night. Pictured: Ms Betts speaking for the show
Ms Betts' family has vowed to continue her work by running her social media accounts and blog for her devoted followers. Pictured: Ms Betts in hospital before her death
'I think my Mum summed things up rather succinctly... Emma achieved so much in 25 years, just imagine what she would have achieved if she lived to a ripe old age!'
The family has vowed to continue her work by running her social media accounts and blog for her devoted followers.
'Now I want to make one point very clear...this is not the end of Dear Melanoma, nor Love, Emma,' he continued.
'Over the last couple of months Tamra and I have been in intensive training under Emma's stewardship.
'And we are ready to assume the reins to continue Emma's efforts to raise awareness of the risks of Melanoma and to raise funds for Melanoma research.
'Maybe too late for Emma, but there are a lot of people that Emma still wants to save...this is her legacy and we will honour it.
'I have no doubt that with the support our family, friends and 20,000 plus Dear Melanoma followers we can make a difference...a big difference.'
Ms Betts (pictured with her husband Serge) was volunteering in East Timor three years ago when a stranger pointed out an unusual mole on her shoulder
In a heartbreaking post after her death, Emma's father broke the tragic news to her 20,850 followers
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